different activities that regularly take place there, details of which can
usually be found online.
No not the kids, the books. Many educational book stores buy your old school books if theyâ€™re in good condition and either pay you or offer store credit, which leads nicely on to tip 3 Â â€¦..
Sounds obvious but list your copy needs and stationery needs and buy together. If youâ€™re trying to spread the cost over a few weeks, spread by purchase type rather than by child. Copies bought in 10 packs work out cheaper and getting all stationery together lets you make the best of special offers and avail of 3 for 2â€™s.
Just when you think you have it sorted. Just when you think that you are finally getting the hang of this parenting lark, you find that you are the parent of a teenager! Harry Enfieldâ€™s Kevin and Perry could not have been more accurate (if you canâ€™t remember this you should really google when Kevin turns thirteen, itâ€™s hilarious). Suddenly everything you ever thought you knew, every reaction you thought youâ€™d have and every â€œnot until youâ€™re such an ageâ€ goes flying out the window as you realise to survive this challenge youâ€™re going to have to pick your battles!
The teenage years can be a very stressful time for parent and child. Itâ€™s a difficult time for teenagers, who, while full of hormones, are dealing with growing up, finding their place in society, trying to assert some independence, and dealing with peer pressure which is at its most fierce at this stage of life. Itâ€™s also a difficult time for parents who are trying to balance allowing their child have more freedom to grow while trying to keep them safe from harm and maintain a decent relationship â€“ all at the same time. One of the particular challenges encountered by parents is the virtual world in which our teenagers spend so much time. As adults we choose to log on to the internet. Teenager are always online. The virtual world means todayâ€™s teenagers are never away from the influence of their peers. There is a constant bombardment of snapchats, Facebook messages, updated viber groups messages with pictures and messages about whoâ€™s doing what, who got what, who went where. There is no escape from the peer group and the influence of family is pushed more to the side than it could have been in years gone by. In the virtual world there is also a pressure to engage in activities they might not otherwise consider. Itâ€™s not an easy situation to manage as most teenagers place huge importance on their virtual friends.
Compromise is essential, but so are boundaries. While no one wants to fall out with their child, itâ€™s our job, difficult as it is, to be their parent rather than their friend. They have enough friends whoâ€™ll support them through the trauma of having a cruel mother or father who insists all electronics are left downstairs at bedtime!
Coming up with an agreement for an acceptable amount of internet usage and involving your teenager in the discussion is a good place to start. Explain your concerns. Teenagers being teenagers will always challenge whatâ€™s agreed, but try, as much as possible not to get dragged into an argument, no matter how hard your teenager pushes (not an easy ask by any stretch of the imagination). Consistency really is the key here. If you give in over an unjustified strop, you have just given them reason to have another one in the future. Less strops, generally equals less arguments. The teenage years are certainly a minefield to navigate, but Iâ€™ve met quite a few parents whoâ€™ve lived to tell the tale. So thereâ€™s hope for us all!